Post by bigdawgs on Dec 17, 2014 18:40:52 GMT -5
Bo, speaking his mind:
LINCOLN — Bo Pelini became the new head football coach at Youngstown State Wednesday. He didn’t leave Nebraska without expressing disdain for Athletic Director Shawn Eichorst.
Pelini met with players on Dec. 2 at Lincoln North Star High School. In a 30-minute meeting, he provided a window into the strained — almost non-existent — relationship between his former boss and him.
“A guy like (Eichorst), who has no integrity, he doesn’t even understand what a core value is," Pelini told players. "He hasn’t understood it from the day he got here. I saw it when I first met with the guy.
“To have core values means you have to be about something, you have to represent something that is important to you. He's a f------ lawyer who makes policies. That’s all he’s done since he’s been here: hire people and make policies to cover his own ass.”
The World-Herald on Wednesday listened to an audio tape of Pelini’s address that night. He spoke conversationally, rarely raising his voice. It’s a rare window into the mindset of a coach who increasingly felt besieged by his own administration and fan base.
During the tape, Pelini expresses gratitude, support and advice for players. The majority of the tape, however, reveals Pelini’s thoughts about Eichorst. In the first minute of his talk, he uses two vulgarities associated with female genitalia to describe his former boss.
“I didn't really have any relationship with the A.D.,” Pelini said. “The guy, you guys saw him (Sunday), the guy is a total p----. I mean, he is. He's a total c---.”
The administration’s lack of support, Pelini told players, wore on him and his family.
“I said to (assistant coach Rick Kaczenski) at one point, I said, 'man, this is killing me.' I said, 'I don't want to die doing this job.' I meant it. I was like, 'I don't want to have a heart attack doing this job.'”
The university released a statement following The World-Herald's initial report, saying it could not authenticate the transcript and did not have an audio version.
"If these comments were indeed spoken by Mr. Pelini, we are extremely disappointed," the statement said. "But it only reaffirms the decision that he should no longer be a leader of young men at Nebraska.
"His habitual use of inappropriate language, and his personal and professional attacks on administrators, are antithetical to the values of our university. His behavior is consistent with a pattern of unprofessional, disrespectful behavior directed by Mr. Pelini toward the passionate fans of Nebraska, employees of the university and, most concerning, our student-athletes.
"This behavior is not tolerated at the University of Nebraska and, among many other concerns, played a role in his dismissal."
UNL Chancellor Harvey Perlman declined to comment Wednesday.
Pelini was fired Nov. 30 and was due to receive a $7.9 million buyout, mitigated slightly by his next salary.
On Wednesday, Youngstown State announced Pelini as its head football coach. He’ll return to his hometown and work under President Jim Tressel, who led Youngstown State to four FCS national championships.
During his introductory press conference Wednesday in Ohio, Pelini called Tressel “a president who understands football, who’s going to support me, something I don’t know if I’ve ever had.”
On Dec. 2, Pelini told players he saw anger in administrators’ faces when the Huskers beat Iowa in the regular-season finale. They didn’t want NU to win.
That Sunday, Eichorst called Pelini into his office. Pelini described for players the exchange. After the A.D. informed Pelini he’d been fired, the coach asked if NU was honoring his and his assistants’ contracts. Eichorst said yes.
If Eichorst wasn’t going to support him, Pelini said, a change was for the best.
“He goes, 'Well, I disagree that I haven't supported you.' And I said, 'Hey bud, you can't support someone under a f-ing rock.' I said, 'to do your job at this level, in a place like this, you gotta be a grown-ass f-ing man to lead something.' I said, 'you can't lead anything under a f-ing rock.' I said, 'you don't spend any time with us. Our players don't even know who you are.' And I said, 'that isn't leadership.'
“And he said, 'Well I appreciate your advice.'”
“And I said, 'I suggest you take it, but see you later.' And that's how it went down.”
Pelini saw it coming. He told Husker players on Dec. 2 that one week before he was fired, he approached two members of the Board of Regents.
“I don't even really know what those guys do. And I said ‘Hey, you know what, if (Eichorst) ain't gonna do his job, if he doesn't have the balls to go out there and support me, to support these kids, support this program, then do me a favor and get rid of me.’"
Pelini has made no public comments about Nebraska in the 2½ weeks since his termination. Hired by Tom Osborne in 2007, he went 67-27 in seven seasons, reaching three conference championship games, but never winning one.
Pelini told his players that Osborne was forced out of the A.D. role in 2012 and Pelini knew what was “around the corner.”
“I'll put it to you this way,” he said. “It didn't surprise me how it played out.”
“At the end of the day ... it’s hard enough to get to build something, but you’ve got to have everybody going in one direction. And it wasn’t. Everybody wasn’t going in the right direction.
“I think there were agendas and those go all the way over to the chancellor's office. Between the A.D. and the chancellor. And if they want their own guy in here, go ahead. Good luck to ya.”
After the Iowa loss in 2013, Pelini told players, he was “trying to press — I wanted to find out where they stood.”
“And unfortunately all I found out then was that they were p------ and they were gonna do what was politically right.”
Pelini said he never received guidelines stating what he had to do in 2014 to keep his job. Over the past six months, Pelini said, he saw Eichorst “probably a total of seven or eight times for a total of about 20 minutes.”
Pelini said he’d been in the business long enough to know it wasn’t going to work out. He and Eichorst were simply different people.
“I'm not somebody who is going to sit there and get along to get along. ... I am going to speak my mind, and that probably bothered him and the chancellor.”
Pelini referenced a meeting between Eichorst and Husker players the night he was fired, Nov. 30.
“I am sure you guys walked out of there and you’re all smart guys who have been around. I’m sure your gut told you certain things. Trust your gut, because your gut is right.
“Not knowing how it was going to go, when he told me he was going to meet with you guys at 8 p.m., my first thought was, 'well, that ain’t gonna go real well.' Because I knew he wouldn’t handle it the right way.
“I heard he brought security in with him. C’mon man. I mean, s--- fellas, look at who he circles himself with. Look at his team of people. C’mon, man.
“I’d rather f------ work at McDonald’s than work with some of those guys. Not that there is anything bad about working at McDonald’s.”
Why did he want to meet with players? Pelini said he wasn’t going to “toe the company line.” He wanted to tell players “what went down.”
“Let me tell you fellas, this is for real: If it wasn’t for you guys and the coaches and for their families, I would have resigned a year ago. Because there was some things that were going on that were making me miserable. And all the money in the world ain’t f------ worth that. And that’s the truth.
“I told those guys, and Kaz knows, there were too many people, you guys included, that were counting on me and that would’ve upset the apple cart. My kids were happy here, I said I could suck it up.
“When I was in coaching — doing the X’s and O’s and game-planning and all those types of things, fellas — I forget about all this stuff.
“But there were times when I wasn’t doing that, when I had to deal with all the other bulls---, let me tell ya, there were a lot of nights that I would just go home and sit on the bed and sit there and think, ‘What the f--- am I doing? Is this worth it?' I felt like it was taking years off my life.”
Tell me if I’m wrong, Pelini told players, but the environment at Nebraska wore on you as the past several seasons progressed. It gets harder and harder and harder.
“It's a b---- here. It is hard enough when you have the negativity that comes from the media and the negativity from a lot of former players and this talk show and that talk show. You win and it ain’t good enough. It's not good enough, how you won. There is a lot of things that go on there, and if you don’t have a grown man standing in front of the thing saying 'Hey, I'm behind it,' getting everybody, rallying them — I can do it all I want, but they're b----ing at me, too.
“It was never more evident than the Wisconsin game. I thought you guys were more mentally beat in that game than we got physically beat. It’s a culmination of the negativity. And I understand, you guys are human. That is why I was constantly talking to you guys about it.
“Last game, you guys just said f--- it, let’s go play. Despite all the injuries we dealt with, you guys at least played free. And that's my advice to you guys that come back. You can’t let this place eat you up, because if you let it, it will eat you up.
“I have been at LSU, I have been at Oklahoma, I have been to these other places. ... The scrutiny, the negativity, it ain’t like that everywhere. But it is what it is. You gotta be strong as hell and you deal with it. You have to. Because it’s real, I know it’s out there. I’ve seen it.”
Football is not a job, Pelini said, and these years are supposed to be the best of your lives.
“If any of you guys have on your mind, 'Hey, should I go or should I stay?' At the end of the day, you gotta sit there and think ‘This is how many years I got left. These ought to be the best years of my life. And if I don’t think it’s going to be that way in this place,' then you shouldn’t stay. But if you feel like, 'Hey, this is the place for me, this is the place I’m going to enjoy my career,' then you should stay. That’s what it should come down to.”
The audio tape concludes with Pelini restating his support for the players. You’re always free to call or text me, he said. I’ll be there for you.
“Appreciate you fellas, OK? Appreciate you guys coming out. Love you, OK? Thanks, fellas. Appreciate it.”
LINCOLN — Bo Pelini became the new head football coach at Youngstown State Wednesday. He didn’t leave Nebraska without expressing disdain for Athletic Director Shawn Eichorst.
Pelini met with players on Dec. 2 at Lincoln North Star High School. In a 30-minute meeting, he provided a window into the strained — almost non-existent — relationship between his former boss and him.
“A guy like (Eichorst), who has no integrity, he doesn’t even understand what a core value is," Pelini told players. "He hasn’t understood it from the day he got here. I saw it when I first met with the guy.
“To have core values means you have to be about something, you have to represent something that is important to you. He's a f------ lawyer who makes policies. That’s all he’s done since he’s been here: hire people and make policies to cover his own ass.”
The World-Herald on Wednesday listened to an audio tape of Pelini’s address that night. He spoke conversationally, rarely raising his voice. It’s a rare window into the mindset of a coach who increasingly felt besieged by his own administration and fan base.
During the tape, Pelini expresses gratitude, support and advice for players. The majority of the tape, however, reveals Pelini’s thoughts about Eichorst. In the first minute of his talk, he uses two vulgarities associated with female genitalia to describe his former boss.
“I didn't really have any relationship with the A.D.,” Pelini said. “The guy, you guys saw him (Sunday), the guy is a total p----. I mean, he is. He's a total c---.”
The administration’s lack of support, Pelini told players, wore on him and his family.
“I said to (assistant coach Rick Kaczenski) at one point, I said, 'man, this is killing me.' I said, 'I don't want to die doing this job.' I meant it. I was like, 'I don't want to have a heart attack doing this job.'”
The university released a statement following The World-Herald's initial report, saying it could not authenticate the transcript and did not have an audio version.
"If these comments were indeed spoken by Mr. Pelini, we are extremely disappointed," the statement said. "But it only reaffirms the decision that he should no longer be a leader of young men at Nebraska.
"His habitual use of inappropriate language, and his personal and professional attacks on administrators, are antithetical to the values of our university. His behavior is consistent with a pattern of unprofessional, disrespectful behavior directed by Mr. Pelini toward the passionate fans of Nebraska, employees of the university and, most concerning, our student-athletes.
"This behavior is not tolerated at the University of Nebraska and, among many other concerns, played a role in his dismissal."
UNL Chancellor Harvey Perlman declined to comment Wednesday.
Pelini was fired Nov. 30 and was due to receive a $7.9 million buyout, mitigated slightly by his next salary.
On Wednesday, Youngstown State announced Pelini as its head football coach. He’ll return to his hometown and work under President Jim Tressel, who led Youngstown State to four FCS national championships.
During his introductory press conference Wednesday in Ohio, Pelini called Tressel “a president who understands football, who’s going to support me, something I don’t know if I’ve ever had.”
On Dec. 2, Pelini told players he saw anger in administrators’ faces when the Huskers beat Iowa in the regular-season finale. They didn’t want NU to win.
That Sunday, Eichorst called Pelini into his office. Pelini described for players the exchange. After the A.D. informed Pelini he’d been fired, the coach asked if NU was honoring his and his assistants’ contracts. Eichorst said yes.
If Eichorst wasn’t going to support him, Pelini said, a change was for the best.
“He goes, 'Well, I disagree that I haven't supported you.' And I said, 'Hey bud, you can't support someone under a f-ing rock.' I said, 'to do your job at this level, in a place like this, you gotta be a grown-ass f-ing man to lead something.' I said, 'you can't lead anything under a f-ing rock.' I said, 'you don't spend any time with us. Our players don't even know who you are.' And I said, 'that isn't leadership.'
“And he said, 'Well I appreciate your advice.'”
“And I said, 'I suggest you take it, but see you later.' And that's how it went down.”
Pelini saw it coming. He told Husker players on Dec. 2 that one week before he was fired, he approached two members of the Board of Regents.
“I don't even really know what those guys do. And I said ‘Hey, you know what, if (Eichorst) ain't gonna do his job, if he doesn't have the balls to go out there and support me, to support these kids, support this program, then do me a favor and get rid of me.’"
Pelini has made no public comments about Nebraska in the 2½ weeks since his termination. Hired by Tom Osborne in 2007, he went 67-27 in seven seasons, reaching three conference championship games, but never winning one.
Pelini told his players that Osborne was forced out of the A.D. role in 2012 and Pelini knew what was “around the corner.”
“I'll put it to you this way,” he said. “It didn't surprise me how it played out.”
“At the end of the day ... it’s hard enough to get to build something, but you’ve got to have everybody going in one direction. And it wasn’t. Everybody wasn’t going in the right direction.
“I think there were agendas and those go all the way over to the chancellor's office. Between the A.D. and the chancellor. And if they want their own guy in here, go ahead. Good luck to ya.”
After the Iowa loss in 2013, Pelini told players, he was “trying to press — I wanted to find out where they stood.”
“And unfortunately all I found out then was that they were p------ and they were gonna do what was politically right.”
Pelini said he never received guidelines stating what he had to do in 2014 to keep his job. Over the past six months, Pelini said, he saw Eichorst “probably a total of seven or eight times for a total of about 20 minutes.”
Pelini said he’d been in the business long enough to know it wasn’t going to work out. He and Eichorst were simply different people.
“I'm not somebody who is going to sit there and get along to get along. ... I am going to speak my mind, and that probably bothered him and the chancellor.”
Pelini referenced a meeting between Eichorst and Husker players the night he was fired, Nov. 30.
“I am sure you guys walked out of there and you’re all smart guys who have been around. I’m sure your gut told you certain things. Trust your gut, because your gut is right.
“Not knowing how it was going to go, when he told me he was going to meet with you guys at 8 p.m., my first thought was, 'well, that ain’t gonna go real well.' Because I knew he wouldn’t handle it the right way.
“I heard he brought security in with him. C’mon man. I mean, s--- fellas, look at who he circles himself with. Look at his team of people. C’mon, man.
“I’d rather f------ work at McDonald’s than work with some of those guys. Not that there is anything bad about working at McDonald’s.”
Why did he want to meet with players? Pelini said he wasn’t going to “toe the company line.” He wanted to tell players “what went down.”
“Let me tell you fellas, this is for real: If it wasn’t for you guys and the coaches and for their families, I would have resigned a year ago. Because there was some things that were going on that were making me miserable. And all the money in the world ain’t f------ worth that. And that’s the truth.
“I told those guys, and Kaz knows, there were too many people, you guys included, that were counting on me and that would’ve upset the apple cart. My kids were happy here, I said I could suck it up.
“When I was in coaching — doing the X’s and O’s and game-planning and all those types of things, fellas — I forget about all this stuff.
“But there were times when I wasn’t doing that, when I had to deal with all the other bulls---, let me tell ya, there were a lot of nights that I would just go home and sit on the bed and sit there and think, ‘What the f--- am I doing? Is this worth it?' I felt like it was taking years off my life.”
Tell me if I’m wrong, Pelini told players, but the environment at Nebraska wore on you as the past several seasons progressed. It gets harder and harder and harder.
“It's a b---- here. It is hard enough when you have the negativity that comes from the media and the negativity from a lot of former players and this talk show and that talk show. You win and it ain’t good enough. It's not good enough, how you won. There is a lot of things that go on there, and if you don’t have a grown man standing in front of the thing saying 'Hey, I'm behind it,' getting everybody, rallying them — I can do it all I want, but they're b----ing at me, too.
“It was never more evident than the Wisconsin game. I thought you guys were more mentally beat in that game than we got physically beat. It’s a culmination of the negativity. And I understand, you guys are human. That is why I was constantly talking to you guys about it.
“Last game, you guys just said f--- it, let’s go play. Despite all the injuries we dealt with, you guys at least played free. And that's my advice to you guys that come back. You can’t let this place eat you up, because if you let it, it will eat you up.
“I have been at LSU, I have been at Oklahoma, I have been to these other places. ... The scrutiny, the negativity, it ain’t like that everywhere. But it is what it is. You gotta be strong as hell and you deal with it. You have to. Because it’s real, I know it’s out there. I’ve seen it.”
Football is not a job, Pelini said, and these years are supposed to be the best of your lives.
“If any of you guys have on your mind, 'Hey, should I go or should I stay?' At the end of the day, you gotta sit there and think ‘This is how many years I got left. These ought to be the best years of my life. And if I don’t think it’s going to be that way in this place,' then you shouldn’t stay. But if you feel like, 'Hey, this is the place for me, this is the place I’m going to enjoy my career,' then you should stay. That’s what it should come down to.”
The audio tape concludes with Pelini restating his support for the players. You’re always free to call or text me, he said. I’ll be there for you.
“Appreciate you fellas, OK? Appreciate you guys coming out. Love you, OK? Thanks, fellas. Appreciate it.”